Why Does It Happen?
Hallucinations / Illusions
Reasons for hallucinations may be due to:
- A general confusion
- A medication side effect
- An infection
Check with the doctor to rule out medication side effects or infections, but also monitor the environment.
- If a person keeps hearing voices: Is a television or radio on in another room that may be causing the issue?
- If a person feels like he or she is constantly being watched: Check to see if there are curtains that can be closed over the windows.
- If the person sees insects moving on the walls: Is there a patterned wallpaper in the room that may be causing the person’s anxiety?
When illusions do occur, don’t argue about whether or not they are real, but instead:
- Assess the situation.
- Reassure the person in a calm voice.
- Alter the environment as needed or respond to the person’s emotions.
- “I don’t see the bugs moving on the wall, but you seem worried, so let’s move into the living room until they can be dealt with.”
- “You think you saw someone in that dark corner? Let’s turn the light on over there so we can see better. Would that make you more comfortable?”
Suspicion / Accusations
Reasons for suspicion may be due to:
- A general confusion
- Memory loss
- A way to express fear
A person with dementia may accuse others of stealing items, of improper behavior or of betrayal.
How to respond:
- Take “no” out of your vocabulary. Don’t argue, take offense or try to convince the person otherwise.
- Reassure the person, allowing him or her to express feelings.
- Try and offer a simple answer to the accusation.
- Redirect, perhaps distracting the person with a different activity.
- Respond to the need rather than the words.
- Keep duplicates of frequently lost items, such as a purse or wallet. If one is lost, the duplicate can be shown.
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Sources: Alzheimer’s Association, Dementia Care Central